SpiritedSoul 🎭

#MentalHealth #Narcissist #BrokenHearted #Abuse

This is dedicated to the one I thought was my soulmate, the love of my life, my sweetheart, my love, my babe. My fired ex muse. Thank u for opening my eyes to this mental disability. There is help for u if u want it, u have to want it. STOP b4 u break more hearts. Ur a cruel, cold monster. Signed ur once upon a time 4ever girl🥀

Generally speaking, we all love when things go right for us. We all enjoy the beginning of what seems like a promising relationship when it is shiny and new. But I bring forth a warning to u all from my heart to urs.

There r monsters blending in with us out there. They can easily transform into prince/princess charming easily. As they hide behind a screen, they can become whatever or whoever’s they want to be.

I met a wonderful gentleman online almost 4 years ago. I never got to meet him in person. However, our online chats went on to become, email, wire, then telephone texts and actual phone calls. It became real, didnt it? We spoke of marriage, of living together, of things we would do together. Yes it became a real mess, for me that is. I now know my online super guy whom I began to just adore and then fall in love just wasnt so. As I believed him to be. As he displayed himself to be. Just how many people were involved in this fiasco I will never know. But I do know in the end, if someone is joking around with u one minute and then tossing u aside another minute and ghosts u. Well that is no good of a person in that manner and was never good to begin with. These type of persons r what to be called as a NARCISSIST. There r so many different forms to this illness. But either way it is best to just stay away from them.

These people with this disorder r very good at their endgame. They carry with them a harem of women/men and r super hungry for attention. They r incapable of loving another as they dont love themselves. They never can and never will truly love u. EVER! Sure everything seems so wonderful as it usually is at the beginning. But u r a play toy. One of MANY play toys. They love attention. They will love bomb u with it in the beginning as well. They love to choose weak sources. A source is an individual who is hurting, sad, lonely, despaired. Someone they can manipulate into believing every single word they say. Who could never do them any wrong. Who will seem like they r there for u and believe in u. Who is near perfect, makes u feel like ur on top of the world, like u were meant for each other, ur true soulmate. Some people r so wounded throughout life that they get caught up in all the lies and manipulations. They might even find them hero like, god like, warrior like, angel like. THEY R NOT! They r master manipulators. They also manipulate many many others into believing they r so good as well. They love an audience, to lead, to sit back and watch the show.

If u can understand what I have said above, it is real and very heartbreaking to fall into the path of a narcissist. The one who will fall is u and it will hurt like nothing that u have ever experienced before. If u get to see them discard u like trash and watch them dig their nails into someone else. It’s just devastatingly sad to see them falling into line to get their lives crushed. If u warn them and they ignore ur advice, look away. Sometimes they mistake ur kindness for jealousy and ignore u. I hope they r ready for the worst rollercoaster ride of their life. They better hold on tight.

Well theres my warning to y’ all. Keeps ur eyes peeled. Let a friend know of ur concerns. Even if they ignore u at least u know u tried. Be kind to one another and be safe. Til laters xx

“IF SOMETHING SEEMS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, IT IS. LISTEN TO THE PIT OF UR STOMACH NOT UR HEART” Keza